I’m so on this today!
A stout man by name of Lamar,
Had a difficult time with his car.
It’s mechanically sound,
But it sinks to the ground,
With his weight it just will not go far.
I didn’t even need an alarm. But did you notice that if you switch the letters of the name Lamar around you can spell alarm? I didn’t notice until after the limerick was already complete.
Whoa.
It’s a snow day here in Middle Tennessee. There isn’t any snow yet, but the schools here are not taking chances and we have closed down preemptively in order to avoid scenarios where children are stranded on roadways trying to get home. I have become used to the way of things here. I’ve stopped laughing at the fear, stopped ridiculing the caution and begun to settle into a comfort with the nonsense of it all. Yes, things were different, and still are, where I came from. Yes, this forecast would be met with little attention from the folks of Southern Michigan, but there is a drift between the understanding of these two areas that will probably never be shoveled through. And no matter how much of the same ideals, parallel practice or common interests they share, they are much more apt to enjoy talking about their differences.
I have become much more quiet there, it hasn’t always been that way, but I find myself much more pulled toward the parts of where I am that made me feel at home, the hunters and fishermen, the country roads and open fields, the guitars and mandolins and love of music, the congregations, families and hymns of faith. There is so much the same we just tend to recognize little of it at first. I suppose it is in adapting that I realize how little it takes to change and how insignificant those changes are.
I came prepared for the south. Some folks were willing to accept my northern accent simply because my middle name was usable. (No, I’m not kidding.) And when I explain that the whole of Michigan is a far cry from the image of Detroit, I am met with surprise and a new appreciation for the folks I introduce to them in my stories of home. People in Michigan drive trucks, because they are practical. They wave at people when they pass them on the road, they farm and garden and share produce with their friends. People in Michigan are available to their neighbors and shovel each other’s sidewalks, they love their families and are faithful to their promises. They give, even when they need and they act even when they’re tired. It’s not so different here.
As I finish these paragraphs I realize the snow has begun to fall, right on schedule I might add, and I’m so glad there’s no school. When you only get snow a few times a year…you learn to appreciate it a little more. Nah, snow days for flurries aren’t such a bad thing after all.
Tennessee: Y’all, we’re fixin’ to get some ice later on, so you might could think about stayin’ indoors.
Michigan: Oh my stars, I never seen so many people freaked out by some snow flakes.
It’s all good.
Your assessment of both places is so tenderly dealt; its evident you have room in your heart for Michigan AND Tennessee.
Even coming from a Southern California girl- where rain freaks people out!- I think the snow days are funny, too. Then again, I’ve never lived, as many here in Middle Tennessee do, outside the city limits. All the roads I need are brined, and paths are clear. When it really comes down to it, I think the whole crazy snow ritual (Eggs! Bread! Milk!) here in Mid TN is fun. I love having it feel like a big deal. It unites us all, if only for one day.
(now… off for some more coffee and reading to the kids beneath the cozy blankets)
We haven’t had a snow day in Florida, but I’ve been amazed since my arrival here (@ 10 yrs. old) at those very same differences. It’s pretty funny – the assumptions that people make about each other based on their geographical location 🙂
I used to get frustrated when we first moved here because snow seemed like an excuse for the other girls in the office to leave early. I was used to hurricanes and lightning and things like that. When you hear that there were over 300 wrecks in the area over the weekend though you figure it’s best to just stay inside since nobody knows how to drive in it anyway. And I’ll take a snow day or hurricane day or any other “out of school” day- except tornadoes. I hate tornadoes.